I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had
several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be
close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane.
After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My
first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I
blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been
married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex.
She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for
13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for
minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused.
How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill
have an effect?